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Human
Givens Approach works on a very simple and straightforward
principle. As Human Beings we come into this world with
basic physical needs such as the need for shelter, warmth
and safety, and with emotional needs, such as the need
for love, security, connection and control, and the self-esteem
which arises from feeling competent in different areas
of our lives. We also have the innate resources to help
us meet these needs, including: memory, imagination,
problem solving abilities, self-awareness and a range
of complementary thinking styles to employ in various
different situations. It is these needs and resources
together, which are built into our biology, that make
up the Human Givens.
When emotional needs are not being met, or when our
resources are used incorrectly, we suffer considerable
distress.
And so do those around us.
As therapists working with human givens approach we focus on helping clients
identify unmet physical and emotional needs and assist
them to meet those needs by activating their own
natural resources in new ways. While we do listen with
great
care we do not place emphasis on bringing up
real or imagined
miserable memories from the past, unless the client specifically perceives it to be of benefit. Instead
we offer practical
help that deals with finding solutions to physical
and emotional distress in the here and now.
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At Effective Therapy we choose to fly above the forest rather than
looking at the bark of the trees. We adopt a different approach and
we call that approach Human Givens Approach
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